Pamela Anderson

She reveals ex-husband Lee wrote her note saying, "Don’t let this hurt you like it did the first time."

She says she didn’t know about show until it was being advertised for broadcast.

Like everything in the couple’s story, the answer is complicated.

Tommy Lee denied that alcohol played a role in the altercation with his son, and said that his ex-wife Pamela Anderson has turned their sons against him.

Pretty much everyone who heard the news was surprised – including the bride's mother.